Learning that you have hearing loss is an emotional experience, and it can be even more so for children. If your child was recently diagnosed with hearing loss, they’ll likely turn to you for support and information. Let’s take a look at how you can start the conversation, offer emotional support and introduce hearing aids in a way that empowers them.
Starting the Conversation
When explaining hearing loss to your child, honesty and simplicity are key. Choose words that match their age. For younger kids, you might say, “Your ears need a little extra help, but we’ll find hearing aids that help you continue to do everything you love.” If your child is older, their hearing specialist has likely discussed their diagnosis and treatment with them directly. In these cases, your emotional support can help bolster them.
Providing Emotional Support
Your child will experience a flurry of emotions upon learning about their hearing loss. Being there to support them through these feelings is essential:
- Confusion. If your child has questions, answer them with patience and honesty. If you don’t know the answer, reassure them that you’ll find out together. If you or your partner have hearing loss, draw from your experience to create a sense of community.
- Frustration or anger. Acknowledge that hearing loss can be challenging. Validate their emotions and give them a safe outlet for their anger.
- Excitement. Some children feel relieved to understand why they struggle to hear. If they’re excited about the next steps, embrace their enthusiasm and celebrate this new journey. A pizza night or trip to The STIL for their favorite ice cream might be in order!
Your child may not know how they’re feeling about their new diagnosis. Reassure them that you’ll be there every step of the way to support them in whatever way they need.
Making Hearing Aids a Positive Experience
If your child is starting with hearing aids, you can help make the transition easier:
- Let them choose. Many hearing aids come in different colors and designs. Allowing your child to pick their favorite style can make them feel more involved and excited. It’s just like picking out a new gadget!
- Practice together. Help them get comfortable by practicing putting in, taking out and caring for their hearing aids. If you wear hearing aids, join them in their routine for a few weeks to help them feel less alone.
Additional Tips for Parents
Don’t forget that your child’s hearing loss affects you, too. It will be easier to support your child if you’ve accepted their diagnosis first. Approximately 13% of people aged 12 or older in the United States has hearing loss. The fact that the condition is so widespread means that you have resources. Connect with online communities, talk to their teachers and ask their hearing specialist as many questions as you need.
We’re here to help. Contact Southwest Idaho ENT for more information about hearing loss diagnosis and treatment.